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October 28, 2011

Sweet free Deepavali

Filed under: Chennai, Children, Health, Road Safety, Social — Sathyamurthi Thambusamy @ 12:58 am

I had Blood and Urine sugar screening on Aug 2011- which showed abnormal Sugar levels (plus bad Cholesterol ratio) , the Doc who looked at the results said I do not need medication but should cut-down on Sugar and exercise,do another review in 6 months. So I am in what folks call Pre-diabetic stage.

When I saw my father fight Diabetes from his late 30s, read and knew enough about it. I have always feared this day and its here, I could have done better But I have been lazy since I fractured my hand in May 2009.

Anyhow I have basically cut sugar and sweets out for pat two months, though I am still struggling to get my daily gym routine but atleast started walking everyday for between 30-60 minutes and getting my fibit step count to average atleast 8000 steps a day.

When we were kids, our mom always made home made sweets atleast 3-4 different variety for every Deepavali (we inevitably got some more from neighbors and friends), so we used to feast on them during Deepavali period and she stopped making home made sweets a few years back. We have generally cut-down on sweets during the Deepavali a lot in the last five years. So this Deepavali I basically did not have any sweets (other a small sampling of Prasadam). I have never doubted my resolve but it was good to know I can do this (rest temptation to have sweets).

I used to joke when I about 20 yrs old – ” I will live to eat until 40yrs and then after 40yrs I will eat to live”, which is so true now. My eating habits started to change when I crossed 35 but I need to be even more cautious now …

October 22, 2011

Parents are the reason, I am what I became …

Filed under: Children — Tags: — Sathyamurthi Thambusamy @ 5:51 pm

I read Brad Feld’s blog every day, he wrote yesterday about how his father inspired and influenced him in this one .

I got inspired by this and was thinking about my parents role in shaping me.

My Mom, she was incredibly strong person who pretty much took care of our extended family.  She imbibed in my the values I have today

  • Do not compare yourself with the haves but look at have not, be thankful to God for being blessed with what you have
  • she Cared for people and was compassionate person – I probably learnt to value every person as human being from her
  • I was part of her entrepreneurial experiments, which inspired me do stuff when I was in 11th grade
  • Being the eldest of two, I had ring side view of pressures she had to handle (many a time pledged Jewels and redeemed it for her!) , she balanced my dad and diverse interest of  our extended family
  • Observing her made me a strong individual and also made me  mature quickly as a teen
My Dad just gave me one thing – Freedom to be me and that probably made me the person I am
  • I had to repeat my 4th Grade and then was on the verge of repeating 8th Grade but it my father who figured out a loop-hole and moved me to another school (I vowed silently to never trouble my dad about my education – I did keep it). In another middle-class house-hold in India, I might have never recovered and become Top 10 student (from my eight grade – I was in Top 10 ranks of my class till I completed my education – I figured out how to game the System i.e score marks)
  • He started bringing home Computer magazines in 1985, that made me explore programming in 1986 when I had completed 10th Grade
  • After preparing for IIT JEE for a few months, I gave-up – he was disappointed but did not insist I continue
  • I learnt BE Comp. Sc. courses were not tailored for Comp Programming career and told him in my 11th Grade, I am not going to pursue Engineering degree but instead do B.Sc. Comp Sci – he said OK (which was huge in 1980s India)
  • I wanted to stop education after B. Sc. and go work in Bangalore as programmer in 1991, strongly advised me to pursue Post graduate degree and I agreed.
  • Latter I made decision to go work in Saudi Arabia – he hated my decision but said nothing
  • I tried my hand in Entrepreneurship he supported me, I gave up (he felt I did not give myself enough chance to succeed) but supported me.
  • My Father introduced me to Cricket, took me to a test Match in 1981-82 – Making  me a life long cricket fan (it would have been swell  of an experience to taken him and Anand to CSK games!)
  • Every 4 years he tooks us to various parts of India and introduced us to how big and diverse India was
  • I learned the rules of the road and developed “road sense” at very early age from watching my father and what he taught us
After many years as my father was nearing his  retirement, we learned the decisions he made to support his children became obstacles in his career.  He was straight forward and unbending in his principle, this meant two things – it hindered his career and also he was not financially equivalent of his peers. He was so dedicated to his work that he left it to  mom to do heavy lifting of family related issues but I never felt he was not there when I required him.  I guess this where I modeled my work life …
Both my Parents came  from pretty well to-do Land holding farming family, where caste based discrimination was blatant. But groomed us to be pretty broad-minded, probably raising kids in Madras helped but they still had to over come their prejudices and not poison us with those thoughts.  This definitely helped me get along with all sorts of folks I came across in my life …
I would consider myself a good Parent if my Kids can some of these values before they become adult.

October 16, 2011

Chase your Dream 2

Filed under: Children, Friend — Sathyamurthi Thambusamy @ 10:10 am

Recently we were vacationing in Kerala and called on out Friends Jayan and Anitha in Trivandrum. We caught-up with them after few years.

What was more exciting for me was that both of them after moving back from US, made the decision to quit their software job and start a kinder Garden school – Bodhi Kindergarden school . Just like any other new venture they face challenges but have grown to 55 students in their third year of operation.

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